Although it may be the most natural reaction, studies confirm that it makes you look much more guilty in the eyes of others
Has it ever happened to you: the inquisitorial gaze of your parents, your partner, your friends or co-workers nailing you as if they were waiting for a confession. They accuse you of something that you have not done and after a first moment of shock and not understanding anything, outrage takes hold of you in such a way that it ends up turning into rage. However, your reaction only reinforces the prejudices of those who have not even waited for your explanation to point you out. The more you become indignant the more you seem to confirm that they are right and that you are the culprit.
“Anger condemns the innocent” is the title of an investigation published by the popular science magazine Psychological Science in which it is confirmed that the angry reaction of the person accused for a false motive triggers a curious effect: our brain tends to think that he is guilty. “Perceivers may interpret the anger shown by a suspect as an inauthentic attempt to appear innocent by feigning moral outrage,” the article explains, making it clear that the more exaggerated the outrage, the more it will make those who judge you think it is. a defense mechanism in a situation from which you cannot escape with arguments.
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What this study finally demonstrated like others previously carried out is that judging based on the emotions of the accused is a tremendous mistake because they almost never have a real relationship with the alleged guilt. Simply, each person reacts in a different way and to a different accusation. “This is particularly important because most research on emotional signs of deception finds little or no association between other low-key emotions and guilt.”, point out the study authors to conclude that even the most common reaction is usually just that.
“There are many reasons to be angry when accused of a crime, but perhaps none as strong as the belief that one has been falsely accused, “they conclude. Therefore, what is the best way to react to a false accusation? The truth is that there is no correct answer, however, Keeping a cool head to be able to counter-argue and knowing that your anger could unleash more suspicions could be a good solution. The really important thing that the study contributes is that regardless of the guilt or not of a person, that should only be determined by the tests, the important thing is to be aware that we are terribly bad at judging.
Like it or not, the biases that we carry from childhood or the small differences or sympathies that we have with the accused person completely condition our judgment to the point of becoming irrational most of the time. The conclusion for those who judge is the same as for those wrongly accused: stay calm, try to listen to the arguments and do not let non-verbal language or sympathy / antipathy decide before the voice of reason. Going into a rage or wanting to punish someone who does it will never solve a problem or bring justice to anyone.